[解析]
(1)A.推理判断题.根据第一段In using the latter,you will be helping your kids to think and act positively,and to feel competent in a wide range of situations可知积极的选择帮助孩子建立自信;故选A.
(2)B.细节理解题.根据第二段A child who is vividly imagining falling off the tree is much more likely to fall off.So it is far better to use"Hold on to the tree carefully可知孩子们会想象听到的画面;故选B.
(3)C.推理判断题.根据第一段For example,we can say to a child"Don't run into traffic!"or"Stay on the footpath close to me."In using the latter,you will be helping your kids to think and act positively可知请系好安全带这种命令能帮助孩子们安全;故选C.
(4)D.主旨大意题.根据最后一段Children learn how to guide and organize themselves from the way we guide them with our words,so it pays to be positive可知最佳标题为积极的话语可以引导孩子的发展;故选D.