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(1)C.推理判断题.根据文章第一段,I didn't know how to say no,and was afraid to tell people what I wanted.我不知道如何说"不",也不敢告诉别人我想要什么.可知,作者之所以害怕说"不"是因为她想取悦每一个人.结合选项,故选C.
(2)D.细节理解题.根据文章第二段,The worst thing was that I didn't even realize what I was doing.最糟糕的是,我甚至没有意识到自己在做什么;以及第三段,I never seemed to have time for things I really wanted to do.我似乎从来没有时间做我真正想做的事情.可知,害怕说"不"的坏处是她没有时间从事自己的爱好,做自己喜欢做的事,结合选项,故选D.
(3)A.推理判断题.根据文章第四段,I said, "Sorry,I've got things I want to do tonight." She said, "That's fine.Maybe another time."我说,"对不起,我今晚有事情要做."她说:"很好.也许我们可以另外约一个时间."可知,当她和她的朋友说"不"时,她的朋友回答是"自然的".A.Natural自然的;B.Painful痛苦的;C.Angry生气的;D.Disappointed失望的,结合选项,故选A.
(4)B.推理判断题.根据文章最后一段,I no longer have to back﹣burner my plans to help friends with their job search,or set aside a weekend to read a book draft by someone I barely know.Saying "no" has set me free.我不再需要把帮助朋友找工作的计划搁置一边,也不需要花一个周末的时间去读一个我几乎不认识的人写的书的草稿.说"不"让我获得了自由.可知,作者在学会说"不"之后的感觉是"放松的".A.Lonely孤独的;B.Relaxed放松的;C.Confident自信的;D.Lost迷路的.结合选项,故选B.